Society, Technology, and the Downfalls of Conformity

“Conformity is the jailer of freedom and the enemy of growth.” John F. Kennedy The desire to “fit in”with the masses is the predominant reasoning that governs why people often lose their sense of individuality. What follows is often a risk averse life and in turn little to no variance in one’s day-to-day existence. By following the crowd and never challenging …

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Text Game – To Emjoi or not Emjoi (and other Tips)

A few days ago, I came across this TIME article titled “People Who Use Emojis Have More Sex.” The data came from Match.com’s annual dating survey and concluded that 54% of emoji user’s had sex in 2014. As we all know, it is extremely hard to gauge tone, context, and emotions through text. Emojis help bridge that gap, and if …

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A Simple Exercise for a Monster Chest Workout!

For anyone who regularly hits the gym – having a monster chest is usually a goal. Everyone is familiar with the three more popular variations of the bench press (flat, incline, decline). While these are great exercises to build a bigger chest – I want to focus on a less used exercise that will absolutely help you blast through plateau’s …

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Shades of a Single Man – Which are You?

Being single can be a remarkable time in one’s life – filled with casual encounters, spontaneity, and unforgettable memories. The single man has no responsibilities to anyone other than himself, and is free to come and go as he pleases. Being single (combined with the extra bonus of being young) is the time to make questionable decisions, learn from mistakes, …

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Rob Gronkowski – Alpha Male

If you follow professional football – Rob Gronkowski is a household name. The best tight end in football and on a Hall of Fame trek – Gronkowski is also a fun-loving party animal who offers no apologies for his cavalier attitude and crazy antics off the field. The guy plays football at the highest level week after week and although …

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The Hot Crazy Matrix – Hunting for Unicorns

If you haven’t seen the Hot Crazy Matrix explained – see below for the video. The guy in the video draws out a graphical depiction with a women’s level of crazy on the vertical axis and her level of hotness on the horizontal access and discusses what group lies in different parts of the chart. The concept is great and …

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Flaking: Excuses to Make You Laugh

Flaking. It happens to all of us. It can happen after you get a phone number. It can happen after you have sex with a woman. It can happen after months of seeing one another. Nobody is safe and nobody is immune. A women’s conscience simply does not feel anything when they flake on a guy. I’ve come to realize that …

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Realize What Matters in Life

My father passed away on Halloween. Its been a grueling, two-week stretch. After a week in the hospital, unconscious and no hope for recovery, we decided to pull the life support. The trivial things in life are put into perspective when you watch a parent take their last breath. It was a surreal experience, and it has further strengthened my …

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The Abundance Theory & Burnout

As I approach one year of gaming out girls, I wanted to take some time to reflect on where I was, and where I now am. When I got out of a long term relationship a year ago, I was like most guys – seemingly lost and apprehensive about talking to women. I had spent a good amount of my …

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Alpha Phrase Series: A Man with Options

This is Part I of a series where I describe Alpha Phrases that I use with women, and that WORK with women. The Scene Picture this. You are out for drinks with a cute girl. The conversation is going great, the alcohol is flowing, and both of you are having a great time. The vibe of the interaction gives you …

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