Women & Dating

The Abundance Theory & Burnout

Reading Time: 4 minutesAs I approach one year of gaming out girls, I wanted to take some time to reflect on where I was, and where I now am. When I got out of a long term relationship a year ago, I was like most guys – seemingly lost and apprehensive about talking to women. I had spent a good amount of my ... Read More »

Alpha Phrase Series: A Man with Options

Reading Time: 3 minutesThis is Part I of a series where I describe Alpha Phrases that I use with women, and that WORK with women. The Scene Picture this. You are out for drinks with a cute girl. The conversation is going great, the alcohol is flowing, and both of you are having a great time. The vibe of the interaction gives you ... Read More »

How to Deal with Rejection in a Casual Relationship

Reading Time: 5 minutesWe all want to be wanted. Especially by women. The fear of rejection is the #1 hindrance for men, and can be blamed for the lack of success for many. Those who do well with women attributed it to the “outcome independence” theory – where we go into each and every interaction with zero expectations. If rejection occurs, it is ... Read More »

Tinder Tips for Success

Reading Time: 4 minutesBack in June, I wrote my Alpha Guide to Online Dating profiling two dating websites; Plenty of Fish (POF) and OKC. I still regularly check those two sites, but noticed a substantial drop off in quality over the summer. I attribute this to the weather plain and simple. Come summer, girls want to run wild and free and do not ... Read More »

The Mantras Every Single Man Needs

The Mantras Every Single Man Needs

Reading Time: 3 minutesBeing single has it’s up’s and down’s for sure. Some nights, it feels like you’ve reached the pinnacle of life. Other nights, not so much. It’s a game, a back and forth battle of excitement and despair. The key indicator of success is your mindset. You must be both open-minded and resilient. The most successful single men are able to ... Read More »

Taking Women Home: The Importance of Logistics

Reading Time: 5 minutesWhen I became single again and began to venture out to meet women, I did not place a high emphasize on logistics. I wasn’t concerned about what I would do if I met someone, only IF I would meet someone. After countless dates and a good amount of failures – I realized that logistics are the single most important piece ... Read More »

How to Understand Women: Three Truths You Need to Know

Reading Time: 6 minutesThe age-old question – How to understand women. I have been a dating machine over the past 8 months. I tried my best to document it; but my rough estimates say that I have been out with about 30 women in that time period. All have been in a 1-on-1 “date” type setting (I do strictly drinks or sushi). In ... Read More »

Badass Alpha Male Characters: Sports Edition

Reading Time: 8 minutesBuilding on PART I of the series (male movie characters) and Part II (male TV characters) – Below I’ve focused on alpha male athletes. Not only lauded by fans for their athletic achievements, but most were also revered as sex symbols of their respective era’s. Why is that? Aside from being universally known and popular, note the below characteristics that these men ... Read More »

The Alpha Guide to Online Dating: Part III

Reading Time: 8 minutesThis is Part III of a three-part series where I will lay out a roadmap for online dating based on my own personal success. In this section, I will breakdown what to do once you get the girl to agree upon the date. I will describe how I operate on dates and what tips I can give to make the interaction ... Read More »

The Alpha Guide to Online Dating: Part II

Reading Time: 5 minutesThis is Part II of a three-part series where I will lay out a blueprint for online dating based on my own personal success. In this section, I will breakdown how I interacted with the women on the site – from first contact to getting their number to setting the date. Make sure you have already read Part I, HERE. ... Read More »