Women & Dating

The Abundance Theory & Burnout

As I approach one year of gaming out girls, I wanted to take some time to reflect on where I was, and where I now am. When I got out of a long term relationship a year ago, I was like most guys – seemingly lost and apprehensive about talking to women. I had spent a good amount of my ... Read More »

Alpha Phrase Series: A Man with Options

This is Part I of a series where I describe Alpha Phrases that I use with women, and that WORK with women. The Scene Picture this. You are out for drinks with a cute girl. The conversation is going great, the alcohol is flowing, and both of you are having a great time. The vibe of the interaction gives you ... Read More »

How to Deal with Rejection in a Casual Relationship

We all want to be wanted. Especially by women. The fear of rejection is the #1 hindrance for men, and can be blamed for the lack of success for many. Those who do well with women attributed it to the “outcome independence” theory – where we go into each and every interaction with zero expectations. If rejection occurs, it is ... Read More »

Tinder Tips for Success

Back in June, I wrote my Alpha Guide to Online Dating profiling two dating websites; Plenty of Fish (POF) and OKC. I still regularly check those two sites, but noticed a substantial drop off in quality over the summer. I attribute this to the weather plain and simple. Come summer, girls want to run wild and free and do not ... Read More »

The Mantras Every Single Man Needs

In past articles, I have discussed the ups and downs one can encounter as a single man. If you are not in the right mind frame, it can be debilitating. A sense of frustration can take over your being and affect all aspects of your life. If you are the type that is easily susceptible to Oneitis, you need to ... Read More »

Taking Women Home: The Importance of Logistics

When I became single again and began to venture out to meet women, I did not place a high emphasize on logistics. I wasn’t concerned about what I would do if I met someone, only IF I would meet someone. After countless dates and a good amount of failures – I realized that logistics are the single most important piece ... Read More »

How to Understand Women: Three Truths You Need to Know

The age-old question – How to understand women. I have been a dating machine over the past 8 months. I tried my best to document it; but my rough estimates say that I have been out with about 30 women in that time period. All have been in a 1-on-1 “date” type setting (I do strictly drinks or sushi). In ... Read More »

Badass Alpha Male Characters: Sports Edition

Building on PART I of the series (male movie characters) and Part II (male TV characters) – Below I’ve focused on alpha male athletes. Not only lauded by fans for their athletic achievements, but most were also revered as sex symbols of their respective era’s. Why is that? Aside from being universally known and popular, note the below characteristics that these men ... Read More »

The Alpha Guide to Online Dating: Part III

This is Part III of a three-part series where I will lay out a roadmap for online dating based on my own personal success. In this section, I will breakdown what to do once you get the girl to agree upon the date. I will describe how I operate on dates and what tips I can give to make the interaction ... Read More »

The Alpha Guide to Online Dating: Part II

This is Part II of a three-part series where I will lay out a blueprint for online dating based on my own personal success. In this section, I will breakdown how I interacted with the women on the site – from first contact to getting their number to setting the date. Make sure you have already read Part I, HERE. ... Read More »