Women & Dating

Understanding the Art of Seduction: The Ideal Lover & The Dandy

Understanding the Art of Seduction: The Ideal Lover & The Dandy

(This is the third and final part of a series on Seduction. Read here a primer on the series). Today we are going to tackle two personas – the Ideal Lover and the Dandy. As I have done with my past articles, I will explain the personas through a modern lens that will help you apply them in your quest to master ... Read More »

Understanding the Art of Seduction: The Siren

Understanding the Art of Seduction: The Siren

(This is the first part of a series on Seduction. Read here for part one, a primer on the series). According to Robert Greene in The Art of Seduction, “The Siren is the ultimate male fantasy figure because she offers a total release from the limitations of his life.” Greene describes the Siren as a female persona, but for our purposes, ... Read More »

The Art of Seduction: A Primer

The Art of Seduction: A Primer

The Art of Seduction is the premiere text for men looking to improve with women. Robert Greene, also the author of 48 Laws of Power, does a masterful job of intertwining historical narratives with timeless social truisms. The rules of seduction are so much more than just a blueprint to attract women; they can be applied independently or in unison ... Read More »

8 Reasons You Fail with Women (and How to Improve)

8 Reasons You Fail with Women (and How to Improve)

Understanding women, especially their psychological tendencies and biological wants and needs, is crucial to any man’s development of seduction. Men have a fundamentally flawed view of women, specifically, how to court them and how to keep them around. Such a weakness leads to anxiety and frustration, but also to the ever-widening gap between what women want and what men are providing them. This ... Read More »

5 Signs You’re In a Toxic Relationship

Most people enter relationships thinking it will last forever. The first few months are the well-known honeymoon phase. Neither person can do no wrong and the newness of the relationship keeps everything exciting. However, as time passes – you could be left with someone whom you are not compatible with. Worse yet – you might sacrifice your values, standards and sense of ... Read More »

Text Game – To Emjoi or not Emjoi (and other Tips)

A few days ago, I came across this TIME article titled “People Who Use Emojis Have More Sex.” The data came from Match.com’s annual dating survey and concluded that 54% of emoji user’s had sex in 2014. As we all know, it is extremely hard to gauge tone, context, and emotions through text. Emojis help bridge that gap, and if ... Read More »

Shades of a Single Man – Which are You?

Being single can be a remarkable time in one’s life – filled with casual encounters, spontaneity, and unforgettable memories. The single man has no responsibilities to anyone other than himself, and is free to come and go as he pleases. Being single (combined with the extra bonus of being young) is the time to make questionable decisions, learn from mistakes, ... Read More »

Rob Gronkowski – Alpha Male

If you follow professional football – Rob Gronkowski is a household name. The best tight end in football and on a Hall of Fame trek – Gronkowski is also a fun-loving party animal who offers no apologies for his cavalier attitude and crazy antics off the field. The guy plays football at the highest level week after week and although ... Read More »

The Hot Crazy Matrix – Hunting for Unicorns

If you haven’t seen the Hot Crazy Matrix explained – see below for the video. The guy in the video draws out a graphical depiction with a women’s level of crazy on the vertical axis and her level of hotness on the horizontal access and discusses what group lies in different parts of the chart. The concept is great and ... Read More »

Flaking: Excuses to Make You Laugh

Flaking. It happens to all of us. It can happen after you get a phone number. It can happen after you have sex with a woman. It can happen after months of seeing one another. Nobody is safe and nobody is immune. A women’s conscience simply does not feel anything when they flake on a guy. I’ve come to realize that ... Read More »